Do not belittle an effort.

Sometimes people said the unhappy people posted or boasted things online , little that we know sometimes it’s one effort someone put to feel happy about their life. 

Though how vague and how not long lasting the happiness for the person might be , but who knows it’s the only way out for the person at the moment.

We Human were born with different capacities of on how we think or how we project our thinking . 

Often we forgot to put ourselves in their shoes to feel and to appreciate, we are quick on belittling someone’s effort . It’s true that phrase that says “ You know my name not my story “ but not knowing someone’s story shouldn’t be a barrier for you to offer some respect for someone.

And sometimes it’s not your words of advice they want , just a little patience needed. To give time and to give space for someone. 

And giving too much space may not be good and can be detrimental. Learn how to live in someone’s space and celebrate the presence. 

At least giving someone who’s desperate of it , a little comfort that they are never alone in the space. I know it sounds funny on how Human brains work, sometimes we want space and sometimes we seek for somebody to look out for you in that space. Not too close and not too far either. 

I guess all of us should exercise more cautions that someone we know out there who appears to be strong , might be seeking a little solace , a little space for him or her to be little vulnerable . That sometimes it’s okay to break , sometimes it’s okay to be off guard. And little that they know , somebody is always out there for them to reach. 

That their ached heart may soon be healed , for every episodes that he or she appears to be the strongest , I know how much does it take to picture such bravery. 

Though I may not feel the same pain , but I know how much you struggle , patching the cracked happy moments and creates vague happiness over the shattered glasses of sadness. 

Don’t stay strong because you need a break. Its okay  

Love, the'ann